Parenting three beautiful daughters, serving as a youth pastor, and working in counseling, I have seen and experienced some great and not-so-great Dad moments. The role of fathers has become increasingly important in a society of the fatherless. Sometimes we are not just fathers to our biological children, but we serve as spiritual fathers and mentors to those around us who need it. A few things I’ve learned: Children hear…
Deuteronomy 6 is so practical when it comes to parenting. It reminds us that making impressions on our children is a long journey of many faithful steps. At most, we remember back to 2 generations (our grandparents). The impact of their decisions are ones we witness or hear stories about: Grandma’s determination to sew all the clothes for her children, Grandpa’s ability to fix everything. Each generation impresses upon the…
Are we having fun yet? From the expressions on your face throughout the day, do your children know that you are GLAD to be their parent? During the middle-of-the-night feedings, temper tantrums, flu, homework, dance recital, and baseball season, we forget that there is JOY in parenthood. We forget the miracle of how we waited so long (and thought it might never happen) for this little baby to come into…
Teen – it is a small number, but so complex! When our children hit their teenage years, it is natural for them to want to make their own decisions and think for himself while rejecting the opinions of mom and dad. They possess a natural curiosity and belief in invincibility which makes them passionate about ideas and courageous risk-takers. On the flip-side, it can make parents experience some emotional whiplash…
