Surprise!!! December is here (again!). This is the season where the lists get longer and the stress thermometer begins to rise. We need to “prepare for the season” on top of all the regular stuff that needs to be accomplished. So how can we refocus our vision to see beyond the to-do lists and be intentional about bringing out the true meaning of the holidays? First, we need to identify what is weighing us down . . .
What’s The Hurt?
- Too many activities
- Extended family expectations
- Gift giving
- Financial strain
- Too much to do
What are some of the things that can be eliminated this year? What are the one or two “must-do” traditions?
What’s The Hope?
Nevertheless, there will be no more gloom for those who were in distress . . . The people walking in darkness have seen a great light . . . for to us a child is born, to us a son is given, and the government will be on his shoulders. And he will be called Wonderful Counselor, Mighty God, Everlasting Father, Prince of Peace.
Isaiah 9
Our traditions help connect the generations and bring meaning to the season. They are an opportunity for us to pass on our values to future generations and give us a purpose when we tackle our checklist. And hopefully, it serves as a reminder to focus on the people – our family, our friends, our Savior.
What’s The Help?
If you had to choose just one item that helps your family convey the meaning of this season, what would it be?
Consider displaying a simple nativity. Talk about one person/animal each day and relate his character and importance in welcoming the arrival of Jesus.
Other practical and simple ideas to help with the season (but not meant to overwhelm your to-do list):
- Plan ahead
- Avoid debt by giving appropriate gifts
- Reduce at least one activity
- Eat meals together as a family
- Light a candle in the evening
- Reduce screen time (TV, computers, tablets, phones . . .)
- Schedule some OFFLINE time to disconnect with technology and connect with people
- Read stories that tell of the Christmas story
- Watch a Christmas special together (popcorn & cocoa optional!)
- Help an older person with their tree or decorations
- Buy gifts or bake for a needy family
Keep things simple . . . and keep it focused on Jesus!