How do we raise a confident child? One who has the courage to stand up for what they believe? One who will try new things? One who will face their fears? It is hard to give your child a sense of security when you feel insecure yourself. As parents, one of our goals is to give your children a glimpse of security so that they will learn to put their…
Dear Joyce, I do not like Halloween, so I do not let my children dress up and celebrate this holiday. My oldest daughter loves dressing up and is upset with my decision. What are your thoughts? Sharon Dear Sharon, I must admit that Halloween was not my favorite holiday. I never enjoyed dressing up and putting outfits together on a limited budget always seemed like a chore. Many people…
Another “Mother New Year†– September is when mom’s new calendar starts. Children begin a new school year, some go to preschool, others begin kindergarten, and the big kids venture off into elementary, middle, and high school! I loved my summer on Quadra Island where I had time to rest, reflect, and write about mothering. My favorite times were when our children and grandchildren came to visit. As your teacher,…
Dear Joyce, I wanted to ask you for your advice about our 3 year-old. She is FEARFUL of so many things – almost anything with loud noise (dogs, trains, fireworks, people who speak loudly- including my brother and her teacher). If/when she sees or hears anything she is afraid of, she will cry hysterically and sometimes can’t contain herself.  She is also scared to go to sleep (so bedtime is…
