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Our children see that just about anything can be ordered or answered in an instant, so it is with intentionality that we need to teach <strong>patience<\/strong> in an age of impatience.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Want to learn piano?<\/em>  It takes time and practice before mastering a song.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Want to perfect your swing?<\/em>  Drills on the court.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Want to learn to dance? <\/em>Repetition in the studio.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><em>Want to get an A on the math test?<\/em>  Practice those math problems over and over.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Patience is . . .<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>The ability to endure difficult situations graciously.<\/li><li>The choice to stay with the process that will result in strength and endurance.<\/li><li>Putting up with provocation without responding in anger.<\/li><li>Avoiding hasty decisions.<\/li><li>An ability to wait without getting upset.<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Patience is not &#8220;putting up with&#8221; &#8211; it is hanging in there while you are going through it.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Training A Child Of Character In A Crazy World<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>When we work with our children, it is important to see every issue and hard time as an opportunity for growth. In terms of patience, teach children to first <em>think<\/em>, then <em>do<\/em>! Sometimes you will need to crisis your children to growth by making them wait. Learning starts off with taking turns, waiting in line, saving up for a toy, earning time to play a video game, anticipating a sleepover, waiting to drive. Patience has value so insist that your child follows through on her commitments.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>There are three situations that help develop patience:  hard times, hard tasks, hard people.  As parents, we often prevent our kids from learning patience because <em>WE<\/em> want to speed things up.  We inadvertently snow-plow the road ahead for them instead of letting them learn to struggle through it because we need to get it done <em>NOW<\/em>.  <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>We are training for patience and perseverance. So when you are stressed, practice saying, &#8220;Take your time!&#8221; Is it too painful to stand by and watch? Try, &#8220;Go ahead and finish that up. I will be in the kitchen when you are done.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\">Passionate With Patience<\/h4>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>But the fruit produced by the Holy Spirit within you is divine love in all its varied expressions: joy <em>that overflows<\/em>, peace <em>that subdues<\/em>, <strong>patience <\/strong><em><strong>that endures<\/strong><\/em><strong>,\u00a0<\/strong>kindness <em>in action<\/em>, a life full of virtue, faith <em>that prevails<\/em>, gentleness <em>of heart<\/em>, and strength <em>of spirit<\/em>.<\/p><cite>Galatians 5:22-23 [The Passion Translation]<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p>You, however, know all about my teaching, my way of life, my purpose, faith, patience, love, endurance, persecutions, sufferings &#8211; what kinds of things happened to me . . . Yet the Lord rescued me from all of them. In fact, everyone who wants to live a godly life in Christ Jesus will be persecuted . . . but as for you, continue in what you have learned . . .<\/p><cite>2 Timothy 3:10-14 [NIV]<\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Personal Patience. <\/strong> Work on patience by studying Scripture and drawing encouragement from those whose faith has become deeply rooted from their trials. It takes time to replace an old habit with a new one, so be patient and forgiving of yourself. Recognize your flashpoints (hard times, hard tasks, hard people) so that you don&#8217;t play the blame game when you lose your temper. If you are a &#8220;reactor&#8221; and feel the mercury rising in your body, try this:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Exhale.  Say, &#8220;I&#8217;ll be right back.&#8221;<\/li><li>Leave the room.  Give yourself a time-out and breathe.<\/li><li>Think . . . then DO!<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>What happens right before you <em>lose it<\/em>?  What plan of action can you take to give yourself a moment before reacting?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Partner Patience. <\/strong> We tend to be the most impatient with the ones closest to us. With your partner, watch your tone and speak to the issues that can be changed. One of Marv&#8217;s favorite things to tell couples is, <strong><em>&#8220;Where I am different from Christ, I invite you to speak to me. Where you are different from me, might be by God&#8217;s design!&#8221;<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>Ask your spouse:  <em>What behavior pattern or habit is annoying to you?<\/em><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><strong>Parenting Patience. <\/strong> Some practical tools to help teach patience at home is first to plan commands and consequences in advance. When you have a plan, you are less likely to be reactive in the heated moment. Explain the rules to your child when you aren&#8217;t angry, and follow through with the consequences. Purposeful time-outs for you and your child can be helpful in giving each other a little space. Help younger kids with their frustration by giving them ways to &#8220;let off steam&#8221; by doing physical activities or something they enjoy. We&#8217;ve always told our girls, &#8220;You can get angry, but when you do, don&#8217;t hurt yourself, don&#8217;t hurt others, and don&#8217;t destroy things.&#8221;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li><em>For Littles:<\/em>  Read books about patience and tell stories about patience (or lack of it.)<\/li><li><em>For Middles: <\/em> Read classics, one chapter at a time.  Teach your child what they can do when they have a hot temper.<\/li><li><em>For Middles &amp; Olders: <\/em> Encourage long-term projects that take weeks or months to complete.  Put a child in charge of researching plans for your next vacation or trip.  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