{"id":491,"date":"2015-01-29T19:04:06","date_gmt":"2015-01-30T03:04:06","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/?p=491"},"modified":"2022-07-26T14:01:39","modified_gmt":"2022-07-26T21:01:39","slug":"home-building-relationships","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/home-building-relationships\/","title":{"rendered":"Home:  Building Relationships"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>Do you get stressed out by certain relationships in your family? Whiny preschooler? Forgetful child? Strong-willed teen? Nagging wife? Workaholic husband? Overbearing in-laws? How do we make connections in our home so that we can build and protect the heart of our family?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<h4 class=\"wp-block-heading\"><strong>Home Improvement<\/strong><\/h4>\n\n\n\n<p>A common <strong>relationship buster <\/strong>in the family home is <em><strong>overcommitment<\/strong><\/em>. We just don&#8217;t have enough time! What are some typical symptoms? We are always busy, or we become self-absorbed. This usually results in fatigue and frustration. And who usually pays the price for our frustration? Our spouse and kids. Another relationship buster can be our personal <strong><em>past life experiences<\/em>.<\/strong> In this case, we may have a hard time getting close to people and avoid close friendships. Our coping mechanisms result in a life filled with activity (to fill the void), attachment to things (instead of people), withholding or withdrawing (to self-protect), or over-control.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>So what are some <strong>relationship builders <\/strong>that can help heal relationships and draw us closer?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Your words<\/li><li>Your presence<\/li><li>Your support<\/li><li>Your respect<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>We are given a great guideline in Colossians as it reminds walk with compassion, forgive each other, be thankful, and let the peace of Christ live in our heart.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<blockquote class=\"wp-block-quote is-layout-flow wp-block-quote-is-layout-flow\"><p><span id=\"en-NIV-29530\" class=\"text Col-3-12\">Therefore, as God&#8217;s chosen people, holy and dearly loved, clothe yourselves with compassion, kindness, humility, gentleness and patience.<\/span> <span id=\"en-NIV-29531\" class=\"text Col-3-13\">Bear with each other and forgive one another if any of you has a grievance against someone. Forgive as the Lord forgave you. And over all these virtues put on love, which binds them all together in perfect unity.<\/span><\/p><p><span id=\"en-NIV-29533\" class=\"text Col-3-15\">Let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, since as members of one body you were called to peace. And be thankful.<\/span><\/p><cite><a href=\"https:\/\/www.biblegateway.com\/passage\/?search=Colossians+3%3A12-15&amp;version=NIV\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noreferrer noopener\">Colossians 3:12-15 [NIV]<\/a><\/cite><\/blockquote>\n\n\n\n<p>A strong connection requires BOTH quality and quantity time. Here are some<em> home decorating tips<\/em> that will help with those relationship builders:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Read together<\/li><li>Talk when you walk or drive<\/li><li>Play games<\/li><li>Listen to your child one on one so they know you are interested in THEM<\/li><li>Snuggle<\/li><li>Work as a team with family chores, projects, serving others, sports, ministry, etc.<\/li><li>Have a weekly family night<\/li><li>Connect &#8211; then direct<\/li><li>Short trips or vacations<\/li><li>Take your child out for one on one time<\/li><li>Play their favorite music in the car<\/li><li>Develop a hobby\/interest together<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>Be intentional to remind your children (AND SPOUSE) how great they are as you celebrate their giftings. The simple phrases like:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<div class=\"wp-block-group\"><div class=\"wp-block-group__inner-container is-layout-flow wp-block-group-is-layout-flow\">\n<p class=\"has-text-align-center\"><em>I believe in you<br>You can do this<br>I am listening<br>Will you forgive me?<br>I forgive you<\/em><\/p>\n<\/div><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p>go a long way!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Do you get stressed out by certain relationships in your family? Whiny preschooler? Forgetful child? Strong-willed teen? Nagging wife? Workaholic husband? Overbearing in-laws? How do we make connections in our home so that we can build and protect the heart of our family? Home Improvement A common relationship buster in the family home is overcommitment. We just don&#8217;t have enough time! What are some typical symptoms? 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