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Our anger is typically a reaction (hurt, frustration, fear, unmet expectation) to what happened in the past. The anger itself is not a sin, but how we handle our anger can be a sin. Anger is controllable, but realize that an anger habit bypasses your reasoning powers in the moment. It can be contagious, and when uncontrolled it is costly. So how can we be learn to be more patient and curb our anger?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<ul class=\"wp-block-list\"><li>Figure out what sets you off. What precipitates my angry outburst is when my child: whines \/ doesn&#8217;t listen \/ talks back \/ makes a big mess \/ is unkind to a sibling . . .<\/li><li>Learn the warning signs. What happens before you lose it?<\/li><li>PLAN your rules and consequences<\/li><li>Follow-through every time so it does not build up<\/li><li>Lighten your schedule<\/li><li>Work on one issue at a time<\/li><li>Take short breaks from your kids<\/li><li>Be honest about your failures<\/li><li>Keep a long term perspective<\/li><\/ul>\n\n\n\n<p>To counter our anxiety and anger, the Lord provides us PEACE and PATIENCE. 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