{"id":454,"date":"2014-04-12T09:41:10","date_gmt":"2014-04-12T16:41:10","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/?p=454"},"modified":"2022-07-26T14:51:09","modified_gmt":"2022-07-26T21:51:09","slug":"coaching-discipline-part-2","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/coaching-discipline-part-2\/","title":{"rendered":"Coaching Discipline &#8211; Part 2"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>[This post is Part 2 of a 2-part series on <a href=\"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/coaching-discipline-part-i\/\">Help Me God As I Discipline<\/a>.]<\/em><\/p>\n<p>In our previous <a title=\"Coaching Discipline \u00e2\u20ac\u201c Part I\" href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/2014\/02\/coaching-discipline-part-i\/\">discipline post<\/a>, we discussed the building blocks of discipline based on a foundation of CONNECTING, TRUST &amp; AUTHORITY. The next level involves STRUCTURE and LIMITS.<\/p>\n<p>Children need to know the routine and rules. Structure encourages positive behavior and helps a child avoid negative behavior. It gives children the freedom to move within safe boundaries. Some practical tips to provide structure:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>Tell your child what to expect<\/li>\n<li>Establish a routine and follow it<\/li>\n<li>Allow for exceptions but clarify them<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>It is important to move beyond the do&#8217;s and don&#8217;ts and not feel that your family is living in a finite box. Using a structured environment, you can open up opportunities to nurture your child. For example, when dealing with correction, a parent can start with 4 positive characteristics to 1 constructive criticism. Children thrive when they know some of their strengths so it is important to talk about those positive attributes while working on their character.<\/p>\n<p>One of the challenges of parenting is having a plan ahead of time. What is the expectation? What are the consequences? When it isn&#8217;t decided ahead of time, we get caught off-guard and tend to make punishments that are a product of our frustration. Translate LOVE into thoughtful action by being intentional with structure and limits. As our children grow and change, these will also. So continue to be a coach and a student of your child!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[This post is Part 2 of a 2-part series on Help Me God As I Discipline.] In our previous discipline post, we discussed the building blocks of discipline based on a foundation of CONNECTING, TRUST &amp; AUTHORITY. The next level involves STRUCTURE and LIMITS. Children need to know the routine and rules. Structure encourages positive behavior and helps a child avoid negative behavior. 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