{"id":252,"date":"2012-02-20T09:00:02","date_gmt":"2012-02-20T17:00:02","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/?p=252"},"modified":"2013-01-30T13:50:15","modified_gmt":"2013-01-30T21:50:15","slug":"love-marriage-qa-balancing-each-other","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/love-marriage-qa-balancing-each-other\/","title":{"rendered":"Love &#038; Marriage Q&#038;A &#8211; Balancing Each Other"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><strong><a href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/20120220-Post.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-259\" title=\"20120220 Post\" src=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/20120220-Post.jpg\" alt=\"Sarah J Photography\" width=\"480\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/20120220-Post.jpg 800w, https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2012\/01\/20120220-Post-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a>How do you balance time spent with each other and time spent with friends (away from each other)?<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>The time spent with your spouse should be your first priority. \u00c2\u00a0If you are doing that adequately, schedule time with your friends. \u00c2\u00a0Try to do this at a time that does not take away from each other. \u00c2\u00a0If your partner has good friendships, encourage them to nurture those friendships, but not at the expense of your relationship with your spouse.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>I draw strength from lots of solitude, which makes my partner feel like I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m ignoring her.\u00c2\u00a0 Giving \u00e2\u20ac\u0153enough\u00e2\u20ac\u009d attention is exhausting. Compromise?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I, Joyce, regroup when I am alone. \u00c2\u00a0Marv is re-fueled by people. \u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0Instead of arguing about the differences, it is important that we acknowledge these \u00c2\u00a0differences and accommodate them when we can. \u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0When we are doing seminars, \u00c2\u00a0I may slip away to our hotel room to be alone, while Marv continues to visit. \u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0He is not ignoring me \u00e2\u20ac\u201c both of our needs are being met. \u00c2\u00a0On the other hand, if you marry a \u00e2\u20ac\u0153needy\u00e2\u20ac\u009d person he\/she may continue to drain you. Some people need to look at their insatiable need for attention and address that before walking down the aisle. \u00c2\u00a0The person who longs alone time can schedule that at times it doesn\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t take away from your partnership. \u00c2\u00a0i.e. \u00c2\u00a0commute \u00c2\u00a0from work, spouse\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s business trip, etc.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>How can I keep my mate in balance, so he won\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t be so thrifty\/tight?<\/strong><br \/>\n<em>You can\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t! \u00c2\u00a0You can discuss your concerns about their \u00e2\u20ac\u0153tightness.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00c2\u00a0 Look at yourself and see if perhaps you spend too easily.\u00c2\u00a0 In relationships, in trying to balance the other person, we sometimes go the opposite direction. \u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0It is healthier to talk about it, and each try to grow in your area of weakness, than to go to opposite extremes.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>When life is so busy, and we both have to work and take care of the household, how do you keep romance and intimacy alive in your marriage? \u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0What can we do as a wife and a husband to let each other know that the love and attraction is still there day after day?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Because life is so busy, intentionally put each other on your calendar every week for a date.\u00c2\u00a0 Plan some get-aways for the future.\u00c2\u00a0 During these times, you will have more time to talk and dream.\u00c2\u00a0 That is how you build intimacy.\u00c2\u00a0 Verbalize your love for each other every day \u00e2\u20ac\u201c that is how you will know!<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>How do you balance time spent with each other and time spent with friends (away from each other)? 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