{"id":206,"date":"2011-09-23T10:00:01","date_gmt":"2011-09-23T17:00:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/?p=206"},"modified":"2011-09-03T16:55:54","modified_gmt":"2011-09-03T23:55:54","slug":"dear-joyce-my-daughter-started-school-for-the-first-time","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/dear-joyce-my-daughter-started-school-for-the-first-time\/","title":{"rendered":"Dear Joyce, My daughter started school for the first time . . ."},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/20110923-Post.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-211 aligncenter\" title=\"20110923 Post\" src=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/20110923-Post.jpg\" alt=\"Sarah J Photography\" width=\"480\" height=\"320\" srcset=\"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/20110923-Post.jpg 800w, https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/09\/20110923-Post-300x200.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 480px) 100vw, 480px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Dear Joyce,<\/p>\n<p>My daughter started school this year for the first time (1st grade).\u00c2\u00a0 She was previously home schooled.\u00c2\u00a0 Everything is going well, but she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s emotional, and I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m afraid that the first time that she gets into trouble, she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll fall apart.\u00c2\u00a0 For example, she almost got a yellow (everyone starts on green), and she started crying.\u00c2\u00a0 Is there something I should do to prepare her?<\/p>\n<p>Betty<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Dear Betty,<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Typically, just like the adults, children express more at home than in the public arena.\u00c2\u00a0 Parents are often surprised at how well their children do when they are in other situations.\u00c2\u00a0 Every hour that your child is at home, you are still \u00e2\u20ac\u0153home- schooling!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00c2\u00a0 Make use of the time to talk about the rules of school and how to stay \u00e2\u20ac\u0153out of trouble.\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00c2\u00a0 Also discuss that if she does get into trouble she should admit it, say, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m sorry!\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and move on.\u00c2\u00a0 Most teachers are equipped to help children with their meltdowns.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Love, Joyce<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Dear Joyce, My daughter started school this year for the first time (1st grade).\u00c2\u00a0 She was previously home schooled.\u00c2\u00a0 Everything is going well, but she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s emotional, and I\u00e2\u20ac\u2122m afraid that the first time that she gets into trouble, she\u00e2\u20ac\u2122ll fall apart.\u00c2\u00a0 For example, she almost got a yellow (everyone starts on green), and she started crying.\u00c2\u00a0 Is there something I should do to prepare her? 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