{"id":205,"date":"2012-01-20T10:00:07","date_gmt":"2012-01-20T18:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/?p=205"},"modified":"2012-01-09T12:26:08","modified_gmt":"2012-01-09T20:26:08","slug":"love-and-marriage-premarital-qa-soulmates","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/love-and-marriage-premarital-qa-soulmates\/","title":{"rendered":"Love and Marriage:  Premarital Q&#038;A &#8211; Soulmates"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: center;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/marriage-01.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter  wp-image-248\" title=\"Love and Marriage\" src=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/marriage-01.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"420\" height=\"314\" srcset=\"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/marriage-01.jpg 700w, https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/08\/marriage-01-300x224.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 420px) 100vw, 420px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>This is the last of the\u00c2\u00a0 frequently-asked premarital questions.\u00c2\u00a0 Next, we will address some of the FAQ marriage questions. \u00c2\u00a0 If you have more, leave a comment, or post a comment on our <a title=\"Warm an' Loving Facebook\" href=\"http:\/\/www.facebook.com\/warmanloving\">Facebook page<\/a>!<\/p>\n<p><strong>Do I need to marry my soul-mate, and should I be my fiance\u00e2\u20ac\u2122s soul-mate to ensure a successful marriage? <\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>I don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t think you really become soul-mates until you get married and go through good and hard times together, pray together, and cry together.\u00c2\u00a0 Becoming a soul-mate is a result of serving and loving each other through the years.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>How can I be sure that he\/she loves me unconditionally?\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0 Sometimes he\/she uses phrases like, \u00e2\u20ac\u0153If you\u00e2\u20ac\u00a6 then&#8230;\u00e2\u20ac\u009d and that causes me to have doubts.<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>Does your spouse clearly state that the relationship is predicated on your performance, i.e. \u00e2\u20ac\u0153If you don\u00e2\u20ac\u2122t _________, I am breaking up with you?\u00e2\u20ac\u009d\u00c2\u00a0 If that is the case, you are not loved unconditionally.\u00c2\u00a0 If on the other hand, your partner is simply asking for behaviors to enhance the relationship, this is normal.\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0\u00c2\u00a0<\/em><\/p>\n<p><strong>How much baggage and unhealthy behavior learned form past experience should be resolved before going into marriage?<\/strong><\/p>\n<p><em>All of it!\u00c2\u00a0 Be aware that survival habits learned in unhealthy relationships may still pop up in even healthy relationships.\u00c2\u00a0 For example, if you lived with a person who was rage-ful, you may have learned to either pacify them or to disappear to be safe.\u00c2\u00a0 In a marriage, when your spouse becomes appropriately angry, you may be tempted to use your survival habits, rather than talking and walking through it.<br \/>\n<\/em><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>This is the last of the\u00c2\u00a0 frequently-asked premarital questions.\u00c2\u00a0 Next, we will address some of the FAQ marriage questions. \u00c2\u00a0 If you have more, leave a comment, or post a comment on our Facebook page! 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