{"id":156,"date":"2011-05-03T18:00:07","date_gmt":"2011-05-04T01:00:07","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/?p=156"},"modified":"2011-05-09T16:52:45","modified_gmt":"2011-05-09T23:52:45","slug":"managing-family-conflict","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/managing-family-conflict\/","title":{"rendered":"Managing Family Conflict"},"content":{"rendered":"<p style=\"text-align: left;\"><a href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/safe_image.php_.jpeg\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/safe_sarahj.jpg\"><\/a><a href=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/safe_image.php_1.jpeg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-167\" title=\"Siblings\" src=\"http:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/safe_image.php_1.jpeg\" alt=\"Sarah J Photography\" width=\"560\" height=\"373\" srcset=\"https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/safe_image.php_1.jpeg 800w, https:\/\/warmanloving.org\/site\/wp-content\/uploads\/2011\/05\/safe_image.php_1-300x199.jpg 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 560px) 100vw, 560px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Family conflicts are unavoidable.\u00c2\u00a0 We have many relationships to manage:\u00c2\u00a0 husband-wife, mother-child, father-child, brother-sister, sister-sister, brother-brother.\u00c2\u00a0 How do you handle disagreements?\u00c2\u00a0 Sibling rivalry?\u00c2\u00a0 What are you doing to equip your children to deal with conflict resolution?<\/p>\n<p>The fact that you have differences is not as important as how you handle your differences.\u00c2\u00a0 There are five styles of handling conflict:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li>&#8220;I win&#8221; 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